Caring for the elderly is a responsibility individuals take seriously. As our loved ones age, many of us turn to nursing homes for professional care. While most facilities provide excellent service, it’s important to be vigilant and recognize potential signs of abuse that may not leave physical marks.
Behavioral changes
An elderly loved one’s behavioral changes may indicate abuse. Unexplained shifts in your loved one’s character could signal underlying issues. Watch for the following signs:
- Sudden changes in their sleeping pattern or eating habits
- Unusual fear or anxiety
- Unexplained depression or frequent crying
- Uncharacteristic aggression or agitation
An additional key indicator may be isolation. Abusive caregivers might prevent residents from participating in social activities or interacting with others. This might lead to a decline in their mental health. Pay attention if your loved one is reluctant to speak when staff members are around or if they seem overly eager to leave the facility during visits.
Financial irregularities
Financial exploitation is another common form of elder abuse that often goes unnoticed. Be alert towards:
- Unexplained withdrawals from bank accounts
- Missing personal belongings or valuables
- Sudden changes in wills or power of attorney
- Unpaid bills despite adequate financial resources
Ask your loved one if they understand their financial situation. Clarify with them if they feel in control. It may be crucial to look into the situation if they express confusion or mention giving away possessions without a clear reason.
Addressing your concerns
Addressing nonphysical abuse requires a proactive approach. Have an open conversation with your loved one about their experiences and feelings. Create a safe environment where they feel comfortable sharing their concerns and do the following:
- Document the incident: Keep a record of any suspicious signs, changes in behavior or unusual financial activities. This information can be vital in future investigations.
- File a report: Contact the nursing home administration to voice your concerns. If you don’t feel they’re addressing the issue adequately, you may contact Georgia’s Adult Protective Services.
- Seek legal guidance: If you believe your loved one is in immediate danger or if you’ve reported the issue without seeing improvements, it may be time to consider consulting a legal professional.
Recognizing nonphysical signs of nursing home abuse is essential in ensuring the safety and well-being of your loved ones. Stay vigilant, trust your instincts and take immediate action if you suspect any form of abuse.
